I’m new at all this, and I’m also kind of old fashioned in that I appreciate being pursued, so I feel kind of awkward emailing a guy. Every site has a wink equivalent – either it’s a wink, or a smiley face, or a star, or on the sites for the older ladies, a picture of Ernest Borgnine. Not take-two-minutes-to-string-some-words-together-and-write-you-a-sentence like you, but like you nonetheless. A wink is what a guy does before he shows what’s hiding inside his raincoat. Look, I have gotten winks before and responded with messages, and admit that once or twice – in my darkest hour of need – I too may have even sent or wink or two. J, your justification of being old-fashioned and preferring a man to contact you makes complete sense.But I’ve noticed that the guys I do wink at don’t even look at my profile to check me out. It’s a one-click expression of interest: you see someone you like, you send them a wink, and immediately they know you’re interested. I will do as little work as humanly possible to express this like, then move on to the next person. ” Yes, they are efficient, but efficient is not the biggest of turn-ons. I never thought about it that way, and if you want to stick to your guns I don’t blame you one bit.Please note that this is an adult dating site and you must be over 18 years old to join. You will be able to create a profile, perform searches, and view profile summaries.You cannot initiate communication with other members via email, instant message or video chat.
Upgraded members can view full versions of profiles and their photos. If you don’t hookup on Passion within 3 months you will then qualify for an additional 3 months for free.
Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.
I know this firsthand, as I’m 25 years old, and I’ve been dating an older guy nearly 15 years my senior for almost four years.
If your profile is on an online dating site there will be times when you get winks or emails from people who don’t seem the least compatible.
Why did they choose you and where did they come from?