The problem here is that the relationship is Jake’s not Simone’s.He’s setting the pace, the rules of engagement, and she is essentially is taking what she gets.The other is that by taking what she gets, by her fear of rocking the boat and making demands, she is not actually getting to explore the relationship or Jake.The purpose of dating is to get to know someone, to see if you are truly compatible.
Questions arise such as whether to use the “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” titles, who is going to take down his or her online dating profile first and when to start showing routine signs of coupledom, such as holding hands or using pet names in public.
But that doesn’t mean my boyfriend and I can’t be intentional in our dating by voicing that we are discerning marriage with the other. The hope for long-term commitment has given us a heightened awareness that we need to be intentional in our dating.
If you’re wondering what intentional dating is, well, we’re in the same boat.
A relationship is starting to get serious when you and your partner proudly display each other as significant others in the public eye.
You have no problem mentioning each other in tweets, posting photos together in Instagram pictures or including each other in Facebook status updates.