Another interesting characteristic of ESFPs is that they insist on focusing on positive and may sometimes even deny any negative information, even when it’s obvious ( As other extroverted sensors, ESFPs focus on the here and now.
Because they are only sure of what they can see and feel today, many ESFPs develop a questionable approach to life: “Play now, pay later” ( Loving ESFPs The ESFP’s primary social interests lie in lifting others’ spirits and entertaining them; basically, they want to charm everyone around them.
That might be because my mother is an INFJ and I grew up around her, but there’s something about the acute pain an INFJ experiences that is an entrance into understanding them.
As if the pain, itself, was a foot in the door of entering in and seeing the whole picture.
In fact a dating activity which involves being part of a team sport like bowling in a couples league would be greatly enjoyed by an EFSP partner.
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ESFPs would love to go dancing at a popular nightclub or watch a highly charged football game amidst enthusiastic fans.So if you are dating an ESFP, here is what you can look forward too.Share their energy Hugely social and energetic, ESFPs love to be engaged with several things at the same time.The problem is, some ESFPs, perhaps unhealthy ones, are overly hedonistic and their lifestyle may exhibit a lack of moderation and self-restraint and getting into a relationship with them will be a nightmare for the typical INTJ.INTJs may be able to impart some structure and discipline in the ESFP’s life but they may not be able to find common ground on an intellectual level.