Twenty-four hours later, those heartstrings are being twanged by demons – because your date hasn’t called you, and you haven’t called them, and you don’t know what to do about it.
We asked real daters, with real phones, how they decide when to call. I texted my current boyfriend about half an hour after we said goodbye outside the pub on our first date.
Your heartstrings feel like they’re being plucked by angels.I just said, ‘I’m still smiling.’ Thank fully he texted straight back to say ‘me too.’ If a guy likes you, a text isn’t going to put him off – he’ll probably be really relieved to hear from you.” Andy: “Only if the date really did go well, and you know that he liked you too. Also it puts the ball in his court – he feels like he’s got permission to phone you the next day.” Sarah: “No way.If a man called on the way home I’d think he was a bit too keen.The objective is to maintain your sanity, and your emotional state.There is nothing more unattractive than an insecure woman projecting her insecurities on a man.