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So, we're much more likely to draw in the type of relationship we are looking for because we're a lot clearer on what we want. Raise your hand if you ended up investing months or years of your life in a completely dead-end relationship because you either rationalized all the red flags away or completely ignored them. The reason so many women ignore or rationalize away the red flags is because they feel desperate to be in a relationship.
As women, we have been trained by the media, our parents, society, culture, to believe that our worth is based solely on whether or not we're married (especially by a certain age) or have a boyfriend.
So, in our 20s, we may have behaved with a lack of self-respect or self-esteem, and acted needy and desperate in order to validate ourselves through a man.
If you do your Googlage, you’ll find out that officially there’s only one “lesbian” bar in Seattle, the Wildrose Bar.
While this is technically true, there are a number of other bars that are either owned by lesbians or frequented by so many lesbians, they might as well be a dyke bar, including Jabu’s Pub, Out West Bar, and Tommy Gun Seattle.